Dear Alex Graham






The chat that brings a small cluster of Nazi fetishists together rings out with snark and eye-rolling mirth as they share screenshots of Twitter denizens (Twits, if I may) insisting that Fash Fetish makes one a fascist. Laughingly they type, “Having a rape fetish makes you a rapist, having a
It’s an annoying little truth online these days that sometimes you’re cooked before you even really get started. While some creators get lucky and find a following, or a hate-following (yikes…) others end up just fizzling no matter how much content they manage to churn out. Sometimes this
An Ode to the Quiet Hearts of Fandom Never has there been a time without lurkers. The nameless, teeming masses of readers who quietly move through fandom communities with a passive reception of art and writing. Those who kick their feet up while reading late into the wee hours after
Special Thanks to friend of the blog Sage for explaining what exactly was happening to make this non-issue into such a wild little jaunt into clusterfuck land. On October 13th, 2025 Twitter user @luochascoffin tweeted: “reading explicit fics with untagged top/bottom is like playing fucking russion roullette” [sic]. When